Sunday, September 11, 2011

You don't know me, you don't know me at all

Drama, Drama, Drama... Yes sometimes you're life is completely full of drama even though you don't like drama and try your best to avoid it, but somehow it manages to reach you and ever since your life is not the same.

From conflicts, gossips, arguments, assumptions, stares... it's not nice and it's a bit uncomfortable that people think you are a bitch and the worst person in the world just because somebody told them something about you, something that it wasn't true, something that they exaggerate, yes but since those people don't know you that well then they bought it! And you end up being stared and people talk behind your back... all thanks to misunderstandings, to a certain gossip starter and attention caller and pre-judgement, yes that's probably the worst of all because people shouldn't believe what others say about you, if they don't really know you then they should listen to what those have to say and walked away, and not to start judging you and thinking badly about you. 

And there is also the fact that now everybody knows "it", yes that which you supposedly said or did, and it just sucks, people who you haven't even talked before stare at you as if you were the meanest girl in the world. 

I've never cared much about what others say about me, I don't care as long as my friends know who I am, that's more than enough for me, I don't need everybody's approval. But what it is annoying is that someone who doesn't even know what really happened and even worst that person doesn't really knows you, so it's enervating having to listen to that person telling you how wrong you are, and that you should change your behaviour and be nicer with the one "affected". I mean, why do you care? , you don't even know what happen and yes you don't even know me... so stop acting like the saviour of the story.

If you've even been through the same sort of thing you know exactly what I mean, and I'm not trying to make a victim out of me either, that's not the point, it's just that all these sort of complications bother me.

Now I leave you the song which inspired this entry, if you haven't heard of it  you should listen to it, it's pretty awesome, Ben Folds feat Regina Spektor performing You don't know me!



2 comments:

  1. Ahhhh this song it's one of my favourites!!!
    Great post,totally agree

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